Thursday, January 26, 2017

Marriage is Essential



Marriage is essential.  According to Elder Bednar, "The natures of male and female spirits complete and perfect each other, and therefore men and women are intended to progress together toward exaltation."  In marriage, we talk about becoming one.  I have recently seen a lot of buzz on the internet because of the Women's March basically stating that the problem isn't that women were created to do everything a man can do, but that women were created to do everything a man can't do.  Many individuals will find fault with this statement suggesting that they should be allowed to choose whatever they want to do regardless of gender.  The scientific fact however, is that men can not bare children.  The very act of creating life can only be done by a man and woman.  This should be cause for reflection about the roles of men and women and how they are not for segregation but for complementation.  "By divine design, both a man and a woman are needed to bring children into mortality and to provide the best setting for the rearing and nurturing of children."  The following letter written from the a child of a gay parent provides insight:
Additionally, we have been given guiding principles taught by Elder Bednar.  
Principle 1: The importance of eternal marriage can be understood only within the context of the Father’s plan of happiness.
Principle 2: Satan desires that all men and women might be miserable like unto himself.
Principle 3: The ultimate blessings of love and happiness are obtained through the covenant relationship of eternal marriage.
For more information and to see the full text, click on the link below.

Wednesday, January 18, 2017

Same Sex Attraction


I believe that marriage is between a man and a woman.  I want to be completely upfront about that fact.  I also am passionate about child advocacy.  But the only thing on my mind right now is those who have same sex attraction.  So if you are still reading, let me tell you why...
I am a single mother to 4 children.  While it has been the most exhausting task I have taken on to date, it has also been the best.  Right now I can hear my children's laughter.  They are playing tetherball in the backyard with their neighbor friend.  I am able to keep a watchful eye on them, finish my college degree online, pause to make them snacks, tie their shoes, remind them to use good manners, edit a recent photo session for work, and ponder on how I can better contribute to the world.  I believe that we must defend traditional marriage for the sake of unconditional love.  And we must also defend those with same sex attraction for the sake of unconditional love.  But we must not define marriage as anything but a union between a man and a woman, and that is for the sake of children.  

The following video is one of the most powerful, truthful statements about the current state of marriage in our society.


Love is the essence of existence.  It should be extended in all that we do.  We will never become one in purpose, in kindness, in peace, or in love without reaching out in friendship and pure love to those who have same sex attraction.  If we want our voices to go down in history and drowned out those historians who wish to write their own agenda, we must come together in love.  Our children must see this.  We must show them by our examples.  Within my own circle of influence, I can defend traditional marriage by my example.  To me, that means worrying more about my own weaknesses,  and striving everyday to think less of myself and more of others.  I can call my ex-husband (who happens to have same sex attraction) and ask him how he is doing today.

Thursday, January 5, 2017

Marriage is more than your love for each other


“Marriage is more than your love for each other. … In your love you see only your two selves in the world, but in marriage you are a link in the chain of the generations, which God causes to come and to pass away to his glory, and calls into his kingdom. In your love you see only the heaven of your own happiness, but in marriage you are placed at a post of responsibility towards the world and mankind. Your love is your own private possession, but marriage is more than something personal—it is a status, an office. Just as it is the crown, and not merely the will to rule, that makes the king, so it is marriage, and not merely your love for each other, that joins you together in the sight of God and man. … So love comes from you, but marriage from above, from God.” - Dietrich Bonhoeffer


https://www.lds.org/general-conf…/…/why-marriage-why-family…